Nakedfun
We are planning to book a week in October in the resort Hedonism 2 in Negril, Jamaica. We are a couple which enjoys very passionate sex with a third male. Wife doesn't like girls in the equation and I'm ok as soon as she is happy. We don't like rules when we are having fun and therefore full bisexual activities among the boys is not only expected but desired. My question is if that resort catering to the swingers lifestyle we would be able to meet a guy willing to get together with us. How should we approach the potential candidate or single guys or open relationship husbands would be available or even seduce us as a couple for great MMF pleasure together?

Nakedfun
Thanks for the advice. Hedonism is the only swingers resort which accept single guys as normal guests. No discrimination at all against males booking alone. So we are hoping to connect with someone over there.

xxxplrer
I'm a veteran of many MANY return trips to Hedo II as well as working there with some groups as their Astronomer--yes, I fly one of my good sized telescopes down there and set up on the beach by the main nude pool for solar observing during the day and by the hot tub at night for all sorts of interesting observations of and under the stars. My wife always travels with me (she's not going to pass up a week on a beach, just because I have to go to work each day and night!) and while she is not really into the nudist or playful lifestyle, she does love returning there and considers the nude beach to be "ours". She is perfectly happy to sit, read, relax, and enjoy some quiet time while I am working. There have been plenty of times when a more interesting invitation has come along and I have had to shut my scope down for a while. (She's fine with that, too...if I run off, she can REALLY have some peace and quiet!) So, while this is the way our marriage works, down there, I am essentially a single male, although everyone knows her, and knows she encourages me to enjoy myself when I "take a break". While the majority of folks down there are couples of some sort, the resort does allow and are very open to single men. So are many of the guests...as long as you know how to act amongst others...pretty much the same way as when among folks who have their clothes on! That being said, there are a few things about Jamaica that you do need to know. While it is generally approved, enjoyed and encouraged when women are Bi and enjoy time with other women, the same does NOT hold true for M/M encounters. Actually, that sounds too much like most societies but we still manage to enjoy ourselves (THANKS AGAIN, BP! LOL) So, while Women kissing, teasing, flirting, rubbing and even having full sex together out in the open is quite common down there (with or without a guy involved), it very much seems to be an unwritten or spoken rule that M/M play is NOT allowed or encouraged...at least not out in the open. Of course, there are some of us who love pissing off others and make a point of teasing and flirting (and sometimes more...) out in the open, but it seems to make many guests very uncomfortable (which also makes it even more a part of the fun) and the staff is worse. That being said, there are plenty of Bi guys there...they just tend to keep that side of themselves discreetly tucked away unless or until they seem to be invited to open the door a crack. (I've met a few that were "Bi-curious" when speaking in public, but once the door was closed....) I have always been very open about my Bisexuality so most are used to me and since I am generally viewed as part of the entertainment or staff, I get away with so much more than most others might dare to try. (Full disclosure, while I am paid and working when I am there, I am NOT part of the staff, so I can fully enjoy myself and my times there.) I am an equal opportunity flirt. However, I still get approached by folks who I have known from repeat visits or who know me as "AstroBob" and am taken aside and asked in a very hushed voice if they can ask me a big question. I always look them in the eye and tell them with a big smile, before they can go any further, "Based on the way you are asking me, Yes, I am Bi and quite happy to indulge." What goes on behind closed doors (and quite often open ones...there is plenty for voyeurs to enjoy too!) is completely fair game and up to the folks involved. I would caution again that you keep it a little more discreet when out among the rest of the resort. That being said, you will find the general attitude very open and friendly down there. Once you begin to be a little more social and start meeting new friends, you will get a better feeling about them, just like in the real world. Folks down there do tend to find that Hedo II is a very real fantasy Island and you can usually find who and what you are looking for. You don't need to wear a shirt that says, "I'm bi and WE are looking!" (Although, that might help, but it might also alienate others. However, you could always borrow a shirt from a Marine...We're looking for a few good men!) Just be yourselves and go there without expectations...don't put that kind of pressure on yourselves during a vacation. Once you are relaxed and happy, others will pick up on your vibe and soon you will be making all sorts of new friends. If you see a guy that you both are interested in, strike up a conversation. Better yet, offer to buy him a drink. (Don't worry...the alcoholic drinks are FREE!) It a great way to break the ice and who knows where it will lead. Have a GREAT time down there and let me know if you have any other questions. Now, if you happen to decide to go during The Fluffernutter's week in February or July, let me know...I'll probably be there!