It’s hard for me, I totally get it. I got burned a while back and now that I’m past it, I crave a real woman who wants more than just a fling. You each are right, we crave that which we cannot have. I’m happily married, he doesn’t have any issues with me having a gf of my own, but I can’t find a woman that I click with. I did the settling thing, and juicyp6 is right, it winds up less than satisfying. I feel very alone. I almost wish I could shut that part of me off.