Kynewbi
I’m so tight how do I relax to take a cock in me

69plusone
Greasiest way to get used to it at first is to use an inflatable butt plug. Practice pumping it up and leaving it there for a little while, then give it another pump or two. You will be surprised how big you can actually go, then I would practice either a large diameter dildo, it's all a matter of teaching yourself to relax and when to relax.

Laz_AZ
1st, get
1. a small, medium, medium large, large dildos (cheap online),
2. condoms,
3. silicone lube (Wet, Swiss Navy - SILICONE)
4. Douche - disposable or not. Fleet or store band
5. Large box of condoms (cheap at Targer for box of 36 or online)

Prepare
1. Use anal douching device - or Fleet (use store brand) but DON’T use the saline solution IN IT, instead use warm water. Clean, until clear.
2. You can start with fingers, multiple fingers (lube)
3. Use condom on a small dildo (cheap kind are available online Amazon, etc. Get small medium, medium large, work up.
4. Lube inside yourself,
5. Lube the condomed dildo
6. Insert slowly a bit, in and out...
7. Add more lube
Close your eyes and see how it feels, etc. Fantasize.
8. Work up size as you are comfortable

You may also find that if you use a silicone dildo without a condom that the silicone lube is absorbed or whatever.

Often times, silicone toys are NOT medical or food grade silicone. Silicone is a mix and made from Silcone. Medical/food grade can be boiled. So to avoid non-medical grade and possibilities of it being bad to insert in yourself – USE A CONDOM which also stops the toy from picking up odors.
The condom keeps the dildo from taking on odor and silicone deteriorates when using silicone lube but silicone lube is BY FAR the best.
Never store silicone toys in air tight containers or touching/close to each other. If one turns to goo (as they sometimes do), it can take the others with them.

Trying to go have anal sex without experimenting first could be a disappointment and painful.

If you get to a large or XL dildo, you might find you can use a lube shooter (large syringe)
Sometimes there is residual "mud" that might come out when a dildo, especially a long one, is removed. Expect it might happen.

If you plan on having anal sex, look up how diet helps to firm things up. You can get hose attached tool for this too (online inexpensive)
Slowly work up to larger over days or weeks. There are Short to LONG, and thin to WIDE. But, once you get used to a medium or larger, if you partner is larger, you body will be quicker to acclimatize to it. Men with larger members usually know how not to hurt someone but not all.

If you plan on having anal sex with casual parters regularly, consider using PrEP (Discovy). You regular doctor can prescribe it or there are specialists that do large scale practices for PrEP and can get it for you at very little or no cost. Assume every sexual partner is HIV+. If they are and you are careful using condoms, you are normally fine.

If there is an accident (condom breaks), go immediately (next day) to the doctor and PEP. post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) is a course of antiviral medication that can help prevent infection if started within 72 hours of exposure. PEP involves taking daily medication for 28 days, and it's crucial to start it as soon as possible after potential exposure. Oral sex has almost zero.

DoxyPrep is for other STDs. One takes it regardless of knowledge of STI in your unknown partner. DoxyPEP is a single 200-milligram dose of doxycycline taken within 72 hours after anal, vaginal or oral sex. Cheap, RX from doctor. Cheap as $6 on GoodRX.

Find a way to get the prophylactic RX regardless of your relationship situation - easy to take it the get an infection. Nope, you can "see" if someone has something.

Pantylvrtoo
t with a dildo small,then medium, then lRge. Use lots of lub

Kynewbi
Thank you

Fuzzy649
You need to relax. Get your cock sucked and as your being sucked! He starts fingeren your ass first one finger then two, then three! Now he just keeps his fingers there opening you up! Then get a small dildo or vibrater lube it up and get fucked by it. Once you are ok with that. Your ready to feel a real cock fucking you 😜! 😛😛👅👅💦

istme
"Rush." It relaxex your anal muscles. Makes penetration much easier. Plus lots of lube.

Nodrama1963
Please use this for practice

bronxboyed
I've taken five anal cherries 🍒 including my wife's. I can help.

D6ltgf
You know the old suppositories mom used to use on ya when you were a kid ?
Well they relax your anal muscles and that’s what you need to do and of course all the other advice was correct also ,