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Several times I have seen people wondering (whining) about not getting any replies or people ghosting them after a couple of messages.
Just some observations, feel free to add your own.

Attitude - consider how you are going to come across to people.. before you start writing. This is supposed to be fun remember?
Pics - Is that really an erotic pic or not so much? Do you always post the same 4 pics no matter what you are replying to? Instant turn off. Are your pics current or 20yrs out of date? No you do not look like that anymore.
Are you mobile? I'm probably not going to come pick you up , then take you back home. Call Uber.
Demanding? No desire whatsoever to be told how I am going to reply/ respond/ or all the things I'm not gonna do.
Pet names - I'm not your babe , honey , BF ,or Daddy.
Desperate? Look at the personals in your state. If out of the last 20 posts , 15 are yours, um no thanks.
Complaining all the time about people on the site not all behaving the way you want?
Leave and go somewhere else, it's not complicated.
Personal info - I'm probably not going to send you a face pic, my address name and phone number. Have had too many scammers try blackmail me from these sites .. the last few I actually found them. .... You can fill in the blanks...
I want to get naked with you , not get married to you.
Low pressure fun? Bingo Winner!


Anyone who has been around a while have any other pointers?