loggersddfirst timers: How would an experienced man or couple normally approach a man with his first bi-sexual encounter? I assume gentle is better but I'm sure some are more forceful. Do gentle folks find the results more rewarding, or does the thought of being with a bi-sexual first timer excite one into a frenzy? I would think a woman being present would make things go more smoothly, but what are a womans view on being with a married man looking mainly for a MM contact, but obviously coming in contact with a woman also. Happy Holidays:)