rm69uI've used a dildo for years in my ass. its the soft rubber one 7" long not to thick and looks like a cock. I use a lot of lube to start till I relax and can slide it inside me. Because its soft rubber it bends once inside and I can get it all inside my ass to the point I can sit in my chair and jack off. Most times I'm on my knees with it under my self and I lift my ass up and down to let it go as deep as it can .. riding it as I stroke my cock till I cum. Love the toy.