i love vibrators!!! i've been in both gay and straight relationships, and toys were used all the time. lived with a guy for almost two years, always used toys with our great sex life. we would go on rides in the truck, and i would strip naked and fuck myself with a vib. or two or three:) sometimes we would stop at a veggie stand and buy some toys....i mean veggies and fruit;) cucumbers are a great sub. for toys. i can take two cocks in my ass, so we would go to home depot and we would fuck in the bathroom. he would drop his pants, i would strip naked, he would fuck my ass from behind, and then i would add my 7 inch vibrator in my ass with his 9 inch cock. talk about both of us have some of the best orgasms ever.dated this girl that loved to fuck me with a huge by fat strap on. we did this a bunch of times in front of her lesbian girlfriends.