BiguyAZ83 | 28 year old bi curious guy looking for older couples, older men, and any bi women interested in dating and being swingers. |
billanddea | Honesty, Discretion, Friendship and Respect. We are not Swingers and have no wish to be Swingers. We are a commited bi couple to each other and our life style, We are looking for a bi couple for friendship in every way. Plain and simple. We are not Swingers and have no wish to be Swingers. |
Littlebigdick | Older man interested in swingers, gay men |
Jrw4219 | Older married couple but still know how to get it on. Have been swingers for 10 yrs |
looptodo | older couple that party as swingers , three way anything thats a turn on |
oilcan340 | we are very open minded and enjoy group sex with older swingers. |
casson5 | What happened to all the swingers from the 70's. I think they are still out there, still interested, but may have given up in the face of "youth". I have read of the senior citizen sex revolution in the FL and AZ senior communities, but see no evidence of it here. Perhaps I will go to my local senior center and put a 3 X 5 card posting on the bulletin board :-) |
bihim_str8her | We are a mixture of both poly and bi communities, so it would be difficult for us as a couple not to be out in both communities. I have found that poly-people whether they are bi, straight, or gay, seem to gravitate to other polys that would compliment their sexuality. I may be getting too deep in my thoughts, but I wanted you to know that there are more here looking for long term relationships than you may realize, and the Polyamorous Community seems to be growing. It isn't a surprise that it is so well represented here on the Playground. Karen |
ionsawmill | People are wary of married men swinging alone. Plus, you've only been on the site a few months. Give it time, tailor your profile, and get to know the site. Lucky for you, swingers skew older, so you're looking for the right demographic. Also, IIHO older men are less likely to be hung up on labels, and more likely to just enjoy sex with most anyone who isn't insane. T. of IonSawmill (cis-male-bi, he/him) Coastal Alabama, USA |
Just_Having_Fun | Yes, we know that this is one of the better sites online. We agree with that completely. That's why we are still here. But, we are a bit more social, or maybe just old fashioned, it seems than some others, and would actually like to get out and mingle with people that we can actually see, hear, smell, touch... Radical concept, leaving one's house... LOL We are looking to get out and about in the real world. If no one has any information, that's fine and understandable. People have begun to live their lives from within the confines of their houses and actual communities are beginning to be replaced with virtual communities. That is good for some people that are great chatters, lurkers and those that can't get out readily. Thank you for your responses. :) |
ionsawmill | It’s rare that I find someone who is more than ten years older or twenty years younger than me who has the same interests that I do. The exception is music. I listen to a lot of current music, so me and an 18 year old could probably talk about bands we like. People my age and older (even the swingers, oddly enough) tend to be way more conservative than I am, especially the closeted ones. It’s hard to hang a friendship on one or two common interests. T. of IonSawmill (cis-male-bi, he/him) Coastal Alabama, USA |
derekone | im heading to vegas in march and someone told me about the green door. its suppose to be a swingers lounge. can anyone elaborate for me. what its like? if its an older crowd? if its worth checking out? |
LostFromBoston | Bisexual Swing Clubs I would love to find a bisexual swingers club near Dallas,Tx. if anyone knows of one,or swingers parties at private homes. |
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slurpee1970 | Bisexual Swing Clubs I attended a bi swingers party in San Francisco in 94 shortly before I moved back to TX. I'd been to regular swingers clubs before, but this was a whole new experience. It was in a house with the party outside & in the basement. Hot tub & several rooms to play in. Safe sex all round with swings, pillows, mattresses, & more. Everyone was really friendly & respectful. I also attended an SMBD swingers club in SF that was an actual buisness. Paid admission & cash bar. Several rooms with the obligatory Mistress inflicting pain on her subjects. Bondage gear in every room. People weren't as friendly. Actually kind of creepy. |
whosnext | Bisexual Swing Clubs Swingers Palace in Pittsburgh has a Mixed gender Bi night every Friday. I've never been there but I get their newsletter. It is also the only club that I have heard of that welcomes Bi male activity in the club. Maybe a member from Pitt. could tell you more. The web site is swingers palace with a hyphen in between. Jim |
Imwondering | Bi-Curious Gay Men A medium between dominant and submissive is often referred to as **"switch"** in many sexual and kink contexts. A switch is someone who enjoys both dominant and submissive roles, depending on the situation, partner, or mood. This term is widely recognized in LGBTQ+ and kink communities and conveys flexibility and openness to exploring different dynamics. If you're looking for a term that describes a more balanced or neutral role without leaning heavily toward dominance or submission, you could also consider: - **Versatile (or "vers")** – Commonly used in gay communities to describe someone who enjoys both giving and receiving, particularly in anal sex, but it can also apply to broader sexual dynamics. - **Equal Partner** – Suggests a preference for a balanced, collaborative dynamic where neither person is strictly dominant or submissive. - **Flexible** – Indicates openness to adapting to different roles or dynamics depending on the situation. If you're tailoring your post to reflect this middle ground, here's an example of how you might phrase it: --- **Title:** Horny and Open to Explore – Switch/Vers Hey everyone, I’m a sexually flexible guy feeling super horny and eager to explore new experiences. I enjoy both taking the lead and following, depending on the vibe and connection. Open to chatting with bi-curious or gay men who are kind, respectful, and curious too. Let’s see where it goes! |