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I am a bisexual female switch, my life mate is a straight male. We have been together for 17 yrs. We are both into the BDSM lifestyle, He is my Dom. We are both practising Pagans and very prominant in our respective communities.
I am a really good person, I work and provide for myself. I do volunteer work for my communities and I believe that I live in the best place in the world.......God Bless us all!
Though I'm well-known in several Bi communities, I've still yet to make a Bi Connection with my kinfolk. Yup, I'm an out bisexual who has never made it with another out bisexual person. My bi cherry is soooooo intact. *smile* I was born and raised in Philadelphia, although I've lived elsewhere (San Francisco, Zurich, New York) for extended periods of time. I have been active in the Bi communities of all those cities except Zurich. I love talking to others about their experiences abroad, especially in Europe. I am very much an advocate of international and intercultural sharing, I make a special effort to make and keep in touch with friends from different countries and backgrounds, and I love to learn new languages (Sprechen Sie Deutsch?) and customs. My passions include music (Beatles, Stevie Wonder, Ella Fitzgerald, Jamiroquai, John Legend); dancing; prose writing; NPR; reading actual, bound books; and science fiction (Dr. Who and Battlestar Galactica rule! -- Star Wars changed my life but The Phantom Menace did not.) Oh yeah, I'm absolutely obsessed with (playing, watching, reading about) tennis -- hence my username -- but if you didn't catch me at the tennis court you might not guess that at all...
Hippie values. Could really be enthusiastic about bisexuality with the right group. Can't accept or understand the morals of someone who would knowingly transmit an STD. Very interested in alternative culture and communities. Not interested in facism or pain.
We are people of very good morale values and try to lead good lives within our communities. We are looking for a very confidential female playmate one who can carry herself well in public but can also be as wild and freaky as possible behind closed doors.
I'm a professional businessman that is 6ft tall, 190 lbs, light brown hair that is kept short and blue-green eyes. Good hygiene (In WY, you can never be sure), polite, respectful and discrete (small communities, this is a must from you also). Bi-curious and open to just about anything except pain and humiliation. I'm not the best at describing myself, so this will be a work in progress. Feel free to ask me questions though!
We are a mixture of both poly and bi communities, so it would be difficult for us as a couple not to be out in both communities. I have found that poly-people whether they are bi, straight, or gay, seem to gravitate to other polys that would compliment their sexuality.
I may be getting too deep in my thoughts, but I wanted you to know that there are more here looking for long term relationships than you may realize, and the Polyamorous Community seems to be growing. It isn't a surprise that it is so well represented here on the Playground.
Karen
Yes, we know that this is one of the better sites online. We agree with that completely. That's why we are still here.

But, we are a bit more social, or maybe just old fashioned, it seems than some others, and would actually like to get out and mingle with people that we can actually see, hear, smell, touch... Radical concept, leaving one's house... LOL We are looking to get out and about in the real world.

If no one has any information, that's fine and understandable. People have begun to live their lives from within the confines of their houses and actual communities are beginning to be replaced with virtual communities. That is good for some people that are great chatters, lurkers and those that can't get out readily.

Thank you for your responses. :)
What about looking into polyamory communities?
Yes, the internet has opened up a line of communication for many communities that would have been isolated just a few decades ago.
Belletrans I get what ya saying but some of us have businesses and families and maybe where pillars in our communities that we have to hide !
Maybe we wish we didn’t have to but some of us have so much to loose that we’ve worked our whole lives for that we just can’t risk it !
Regardless of your political viewpoints This Monkeypox should be taken seriously until more is known about it. Not sure if any numbers have been verified but it seems to be hitting the bisexual and gay communities hard. So just be informed and make sound decisions as to what is best for you. Stay safe everyone!

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Bi-Curious Gay Men
A medium between dominant and submissive is often referred to as **"switch"** in many sexual and kink contexts. A switch is someone who enjoys both dominant and submissive roles, depending on the situation, partner, or mood. This term is widely recognized in LGBTQ+ and kink communities and conveys flexibility and openness to exploring different dynamics. If you're looking for a term that describes a more balanced or neutral role without leaning heavily toward dominance or submission, you could also consider: - **Versatile (or "vers")** – Commonly used in gay communities to describe someone who enjoys both giving and receiving, particularly in anal sex, but it can also apply to broader sexual dynamics. - **Equal Partner** – Suggests a preference for a balanced, collaborative dynamic where neither person is strictly dominant or submissive. - **Flexible** – Indicates openness to adapting to different roles or dynamics depending on the situation. If you're tailoring your post to reflect this middle ground, here's an example of how you might phrase it: --- **Title:** Horny and Open to Explore – Switch/Vers Hey everyone, I’m a sexually flexible guy feeling super horny and eager to explore new experiences. I enjoy both taking the lead and following, depending on the vibe and connection. Open to chatting with bi-curious or gay men who are kind, respectful, and curious too. Let’s see where it goes!

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You guys are doing an awesome job with this site. What a great concept! Hope to chat sometime!