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I am a bisexual female switch, my life mate is a straight male. We have been together for 17 yrs. We are both into the BDSM lifestyle, He is my Dom. We are both practising Pagans and very prominant in our respective communities.
I am a really good person, I work and provide for myself. I do volunteer work for my communities and I believe that I live in the best place in the world.......God Bless us all!
Though I'm well-known in several Bi communities, I've still yet to make a Bi Connection with my kinfolk. Yup, I'm an out bisexual who has never made it with another out bisexual person. My bi cherry is soooooo intact. *smile* I was born and raised in Philadelphia, although I've lived elsewhere (San Francisco, Zurich, New York) for extended periods of time. I have been active in the Bi communities of all those cities except Zurich. I love talking to others about their experiences abroad, especially in Europe. I am very much an advocate of international and intercultural sharing, I make a special effort to make and keep in touch with friends from different countries and backgrounds, and I love to learn new languages (Sprechen Sie Deutsch?) and customs. My passions include music (Beatles, Stevie Wonder, Ella Fitzgerald, Jamiroquai, John Legend); dancing; prose writing; NPR; reading actual, bound books; and science fiction (Dr. Who and Battlestar Galactica rule! -- Star Wars changed my life but The Phantom Menace did not.) Oh yeah, I'm absolutely obsessed with (playing, watching, reading about) tennis -- hence my username -- but if you didn't catch me at the tennis court you might not guess that at all...
Hippie values. Could really be enthusiastic about bisexuality with the right group. Can't accept or understand the morals of someone who would knowingly transmit an STD. Very interested in alternative culture and communities. Not interested in facism or pain.
We are people of very good morale values and try to lead good lives within our communities. We are looking for a very confidential female playmate one who can carry herself well in public but can also be as wild and freaky as possible behind closed doors.
I'm a professional businessman that is 6ft tall, 190 lbs, light brown hair that is kept short and blue-green eyes. Good hygiene (In WY, you can never be sure), polite, respectful and discrete (small communities, this is a must from you also). Bi-curious and open to just about anything except pain and humiliation. I'm not the best at describing myself, so this will be a work in progress. Feel free to ask me questions though!
Jodi: I'd have to say i agree with you the government or anyone else for that matter has the right to ask sexual preference... it is a question for that matter a survey that can harbour the potential for some serious discrimination... the teachers are also asked for race , gender, languages spoken and wether they have a disability.. all questions that can lead to serious issues since these people all have to identify themselves by signing the survery and sending it back... the school is saying this is an attempt to make sure the staff within the school represents the community it serves...... so my question is now ... where is the survery for the public to make sure they know the kinds of communities they serve?We are not being asked that kind of information so the board still really cant say they know the type of communities it serves based on results from the teachers.. they do not as far as I know ask for thier SIN # or driver's license number but the signature from the teacher is more then enough to identify them.

I agree as well Bill I can understand them doing criminal checks I certainly wouldnt want kids in the classroom with sexual preditors. Any time i worked directly with kids we had to have them done and your right wht happens behind the closed doors of your bedroom or anywhere outside the classroom has no bearing on your ability to do any job... most of the people I worked with and work with even now have never known about my sexual orientation and nor will they since it has no bearing on my job.

lol Hogan sounds like a plan to me but i'm not sure he board would answer
We are a mixture of both poly and bi communities, so it would be difficult for us as a couple not to be out in both communities. I have found that poly-people whether they are bi, straight, or gay, seem to gravitate to other polys that would compliment their sexuality.
I may be getting too deep in my thoughts, but I wanted you to know that there are more here looking for long term relationships than you may realize, and the Polyamorous Community seems to be growing. It isn't a surprise that it is so well represented here on the Playground.
Karen
It seems that in the Poly and Swinging communities, Bi Sexual men are a minority. I find that more often than not, it is a couple or triad, or other configuration, consisting of mostly Bi women and Straight men.

This is just an observation. But I am curious if most men who are Bi tend to list themselves as straight since that seems to be more acceptable in society.
LIke you I believe everyone is somewhere on a sliding scale of sexual preference and that everyone has the capacity to enjoy sexual activities with either gender.

I'm really not sure I'd have the balls to put a posting on a site I just joined telling 30% of its members and one of its moderators that they need to "grow up" though!

I friend of mine wrote a whole one-woman play about the misunderstanding of bisexuality by both the gay and straight communities. "The Bisexual Bible" has a lot to say about it as well have you seen that book?

And for your point about UK members, why not join me in welcoming the new ones as they sign up. Not only will you make some interesting new friends, but the more of them that stay and become full members, the better it will be for all of us!
I agree with Bill and Play the site is here for open minded people and since I am STRAIGHT and here then I must be open minded and accepting of all for who and what they are. I did come to the site with a woman who was bi but that has since gone by the way side. I stayed becuase I Love the site and ALL the peeps here. As a STRAIGHT person one would think that ALL the peeps here would welcome us with open arms as this means we STRAIGHTS are accepting of them and their sexual preferences. It doesnt mean we are here just to have sex with anyone and everyone. I heve made friends here that are bi, gay and straight and respect all of them equally.In short as a STRAIGHT person I am one of the Bi / Gay communities biggest advocates, because I feel a persons sexual preference is just that THEIR sexual preference and not something that society should dictate.
Yes, we know that this is one of the better sites online. We agree with that completely. That's why we are still here.

But, we are a bit more social, or maybe just old fashioned, it seems than some others, and would actually like to get out and mingle with people that we can actually see, hear, smell, touch... Radical concept, leaving one's house... LOL We are looking to get out and about in the real world.

If no one has any information, that's fine and understandable. People have begun to live their lives from within the confines of their houses and actual communities are beginning to be replaced with virtual communities. That is good for some people that are great chatters, lurkers and those that can't get out readily.

Thank you for your responses. :)

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Bi-Curious Gay Men
A medium between dominant and submissive is often referred to as **"switch"** in many sexual and kink contexts. A switch is someone who enjoys both dominant and submissive roles, depending on the situation, partner, or mood. This term is widely recognized in LGBTQ+ and kink communities and conveys flexibility and openness to exploring different dynamics. If you're looking for a term that describes a more balanced or neutral role without leaning heavily toward dominance or submission, you could also consider: - **Versatile (or "vers")** – Commonly used in gay communities to describe someone who enjoys both giving and receiving, particularly in anal sex, but it can also apply to broader sexual dynamics. - **Equal Partner** – Suggests a preference for a balanced, collaborative dynamic where neither person is strictly dominant or submissive. - **Flexible** – Indicates openness to adapting to different roles or dynamics depending on the situation. If you're tailoring your post to reflect this middle ground, here's an example of how you might phrase it: --- **Title:** Horny and Open to Explore – Switch/Vers Hey everyone, I’m a sexually flexible guy feeling super horny and eager to explore new experiences. I enjoy both taking the lead and following, depending on the vibe and connection. Open to chatting with bi-curious or gay men who are kind, respectful, and curious too. Let’s see where it goes!
Outercourse
Outercourse is a term that can be used to encompass a wide variety of sexual behaviors. It is often used to describe frottage, tribadism (scissoring), or other types of sexual body rubbing that do not involve penetration. It can also include kissing, mutual masturbation, talking about sexual fantasies, and similar activities.
Adult Games
Plain old Strip Poker with a twist: After each clothing item is lost, you have to bet a, touchy, feelly, kissing, something with the winner of that hand and these bets have to get more sexual as clothing comes off. We played it one step further when naked and losing you had to obey the winner's commands They kept getting more and more sexual. The goal of the game is to see how sexual everyone can get without cumming and with three couples playing it is really hot.
Flirting
I agree fliriting can be a good ice breaker. I Love flirting with woman and men and couples. Love flirting online in chat rooms or IM's. Gets both parties in the mood and to get to know eachother better. I live in Minneapolis, Minnesota married bi-sexual female looking for BI=SEXUAL FEMALE/BI CURIOUS FEMALE FOR FRIENDS //WITH SEXUAL BENEFITS... THANKS BRANDI.:)Hug
Transsexuals
im a 35 yr old male BI sexual and would love to meet a beautiful T-sexual and have my way with her/him to have the cock in me as i suck on her tis mmmmmhard just thinking about it
Contortionist
I love it when our sexual partners can get into some unique sexual positions...Wink

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