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Hawaii Sexual Relationships

I am a basically honest, sensual, feeling type of person who has had more than his share of sexual experiences in his life, having been involved in this lifestyle, since I was 14!! I Do prefer women; however, I have had my share of experiences with men, as well; in fact, it was a man who gave me my first sensually exciting sex experience, when I was 13! (Not like that sounds; it was honest, consensual sex!) I have been stationed out in Hawaii; so, if anyone knows what Hawaii is like, then they now whereof I speak! I am mature, confident, and not afraid of new experiences................... ...SO LONG AS it is consensual, and with a willing partner! I DO NOT tolerate "poseurs", nor people who are just "trying it out"; I have had a rather serious collection of sex toys over the years, and am quite capable of doing a little of ..................WHATEVER! I am not ready for any serious relationships, just yet; so, if you simply want to have a short fling, and it's SAFE, for both you, and me, then be serious, and express your desires; oh, and one more thing: I AM A CROSS-DRESSER, guys'n'gals; so, if that turns you on.........................
Im mixed with black and Hispanic. I attended the University of HAWAII where I Defeated the Arizona State Sun Devils for a PAC10 SHERATON HAWAII BOWL CHAMPIONSHIP.
semi-retired business professionals ,weight & height equal to normal standards. we have had relationships with couples and singles from egypt,scandinavia,american indian,afroamericans and hawaii,all were delightful!!!
Easy going, easy to meet, very casual, straight forward, straight acting & appearing, and always discreet. Very clean & healthy, and this is very important to me, so I absolutely expect the same in anyone that I get together with ! I'm quite open minded & uninhibited sexually, willing to explore. And, I'm certainly open to meeting all people interested in meeting me, regardless of sexual interests, age, race, nationality, etc. I'm looking to meet others residing in Hawaii for friendship, fun, intimacy and whatever works, or those visiting Hawaii and looking for a nice guy to meet and/or join their play, and of course I'm looking to meet someone for a LTR !
Married couple (23 years) looking for female (25-38) to have sexual experiences with while visiting Hawaii.
I am a easy going person ,love to meet new friends from all over the country and world. I am an adventurist person, i like to take on challenges but most of all i like competion.. I am also a "pageant" person. I have partiscipated in many of the local ones here in Hawaii, currently Queen of Queens Hawaii, and also did my first National Pageant in 2006 call Continental Elite.. i made top 5 and also won best in bathing suit.division.Ijust finished competing in Universal Showqueen 2007and took 2nd runner-up.. my next quest is Queen Of Hawaii 2007 on august 18, here in honolulu...if you like to get to know me please feel free to drop me a line and we can go from there.. Again mahalo Ms Jerrine Jeffries National Showqueen 2007.
We have met many people here and a good number of them have not only made the *lasting friend* list but have become a part of our FAMILY. There is nothing sexual in these relationships nor would it ever go there. We also came for the sex........ but stayed for the friends. You CAN be friends without the sex here. And shouldn't be condemned for that. We all have our wants/likes/dislikes and those should be respected. Some are only here for the sex and thats great if thats what they want. But those that are here for just the friends should also be respected. I know in our case, our lives are fuller because of the NON sexual relationships we have found here. Hugs & Kiss
Di
Many people are 100% gay or lesbian, and are drawn sexually and emotionally only to partners of the same sex. Others are completely heterosexual, bonding in sexual and intimate relationships only with people of another sex. But what about everybody else? A significant percentage of people do not fit neatly into either of these categories, because they experience sexual and emotional attractions and feelings for people of different genders at some point during their lives. For lack of a better term, they are called bisexuals, although many people prefer to call themselves "pansexual," "non-preferential,&am p;quot; "sexually fluid," "ambisexual,&quot ; or "omni-sexual.&quo t;
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Bisexuality is the potential to feel sexually attracted to and to engage in sensual or sexual relationships with people of either sex. A bisexual person may not be equally attracted to both sexes, and a degree of attraction may vary over time. Self-perception is the key to a bisexual identity. Many people engage in a sexual activity with people of both sexes, yet do not identify as being bisexual. Likewise, other people engage in sexual relations only with people of one sex, or do not engage in sexual activity at all, yet consider themselves bisexual. There is no behavioral "test" to determine whether or not one is bisexual.
Coconut oil and water works great as An enima. Taste great when you are rimming Like being in hawaii although Coconuts are not indigenous to hawaii l o l.
I am married to a wonderful bisexual woman for the past 25 years. I also am bisexual and amazingly we never new this about each other but in retrospect I should have picked up on it. At any rate we are in tune with this now but I am curious about the differences between relationships in men and women outside the marriage. To me a sexual fling, or fuck buddy etc. is purely for the pleasure of physical sex. I consider romantic or loving type friendships to be another dimension entirely. My wife has multiple platonic relationship of a deep and lioving nature that I would classify as affairs due to the intensity but because they are platonic I am not certain how to categorize them. I find them painful to address as I am the type of person that maintains that emotional committment must be total. Of course she disagrees with me and consider that a person can love many different prople but at different levels. This is hard for me and perhaps it is a fundamental difference between men and women and how we view relationships. Or perhaps I am too stringent in my interpretation. She suggests I develop "friends" as she has done (I tend to be a loner and she has been my soulmate and only true friend) so this will be difficult for me. I am setting up for sexual gratification with other bisexual men and possibly women although she feels threatened by that unless she is involved. She does not want sex as frequently as I as she appears to have entered the age where vaginal dryness is causing her a great deal of pain and I take up to an hour to reach orgasm. So we are dealing with that using oral and or manual methods but it is a separate issue. Any insights on how people consider and/or separate sexual relationships from romantic relationships is appreciated.
I've been snowbirding in Hawaii for the last several years, and would consider moving there year round if I could find a couple to connect with. Right now I'm staying at a nice oceanview place near Pahoa, and would particularly like to meet playful people in that area. I enjoy men and women equally, and both at once the best! I'm looking for whole relationships involving trust, intimacy, and honesty as well as passion.

Any BP punatics willing to help me broaden my social circle there? I'll be in HI from late November, and return to the mainland in early May.

Aloha!
Thank you everyone for your support. I wish to continue in seeking relationships with women as they are what I am emotionally attracted to. The sexual desires that I have with men are strictly that sexual. I have thought about becoming a sissy myself as at least that way perhaps I can have a more emotional relationship with myself if that makes any sense. I don’t know where I will end up as of yet. I just know that it is impossible for me to ignore my desire for sexual experiences of the gay/bisexual nature. Perhaps after more exploration I will further understand and embrace this. I have only over the last few months truly come to terms with the fact that I’m bisexual and I guess exploring it needs to occur to expand my understanding.

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Bisexual Swing Clubs
does anybody know of any bi sexual swingers clubs in Hawaii
Bath House
The only bath house I frequented was coed one in Sasebo, Japan when I was stationed there in the early 70's. However, I noticed you're in Hawaii so here's some info I think might help you out. Being from Hawaii the only bath house I know of is in Waikiki and its called Max's Gym & Private Men's Club. If you email me I'll send you their phone number...
Hawaii
Having been born and raised in Hawaii I know for a fact that there are a lot of good looking men available for the taking if you are interested and know where to look. My best friend that I grew up with still lives there and every time I go home his always willing, ready, and able to welcum me to PARADISE. Sue has also fallen in love with Hawaii and the diversity of good looking men and women that abound on the islands. As BiKauai mentioned in his post you can get the most action on the island of Oahu. Billy
1 Woman For Woman
Women in Hawaii? Want to chat/ meet?
F-M-F Threesome
Couplke in Hawaii want to meet bi female friend
Beaches
Being from Hawaii I have a fondnest for beautiful beaches especially sandy white ones...:)

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Thank you so much for being so attentive to your members. I never invested for a lifetime membership before. I have a warm fuzzy feeling about your site. You are really doing a tremendous service to people like myself who feel like a lost kitten. I don't like raw sex but I do enjoy multiple relationships within a group. How is that for an explanation. I guess what I am trying to say is I believe in polyamory. I did not know this until after I married for the second time. My husband is straight but I really believe he is curious about other men. I do not have the patience to convert him into his real nature. I have lost a lot of time not addressing my bisexual nature. Thanks for listening. And thanks again for this wonderful playground.