SugarCane
Let me give u hot tips on how to make ur anal sexual experience enjoyable. EXAMPLE if its ur first time takin it u should either lay on ur side at first or do it standing. do you know why women enjoy anal more than men?

SugarCane
One of my female partner who only cums when i penetrate her ASS. I believe women enjoy being penetrated in their azz more than men.

SugarCane
When u are being penetrated you should breath normal. You body will become tense if you change your breathing and ur sex will be more painful

SugarCane
Did u know that there are several anal pleasure zones

wetkitty18
I haven't had had much anal sex experiance, other than with toys by myself, and once my partener used his finger. I enjoy it more than regular sex and I was curiouse why so I checked out several sites about it. They say that there are more nerve endings or something, so that you have more feeling than in a vagina, because the vagina only has feeling for the first few inches.

leebeelong
fun stuff ..... like to ease into it .... but it is very highly sentual 4 me ... really enjoy watching a woman enjoy both @ same time it seems to drive them way over the top @ climax....

wetkitty18
mmm yes, anal sex is great stuff.

Firedawgash
I don't think Women enjoy anal more than men, i just think many men are apposed to it because they feel it will emasculate them in some way. The polls I have seen in sex journals lead to the fact that men who engage in anal play seem to enjoy it more than women on average. just my thoughts on the matter.

ladyred77
anytime anyplace wetkitty18

wetkitty18
::blushes::

BillySue32605
Anal sex can be a lot of fun for both men and women if you have the right partner...

Billy & Sue

baybee_doll
I agree. I have found in my personal experience that I too like anal sex best. It's just so much more intense for me. But "the right partner" is needed for sure. I had a b/f who loved it just as much as I did though, perhaps more. I could get him off by just anal play..never even touching his . Don't know bout you, but it made me smile.

doll

BillySue32605
We know exactly what you are talking about Doll...

Billy & Sue

wetkitty18
oh christ, that pic above is way hot

goji32
i agree with doll. i enjoy anal alot. one time i came from getting anal from a girl with a strap-on.

wetkitty18
yeah, I come alot faster from anal and it's way more intense.



* show me what ya got! *

biwetwifey4wetfem
I like anal a lot, but can only do it layin on my back, any suggestions?

hdcowboy
My wife Can't take it yet. any suggestions.

wetkitty18
use lot's of lube, stay relaxed, start off small (toys, fingers, ect) and work your way up.

BillySue32605
We fully agree with Cassandra...

dlmaggygrit78
Damn, damn, damn....Can I have some? I LOVE anal play...gets me off everytime...but have only had anal sex once...sigh..oh, the humanity! Want to try double penetration sometime soon...just thinking about it gets me all tingly...:P

iwantcookie
wow i must cum hang out with you guys , you know how to have fun

iwantcookie
should the women be on top the first time with anal?

baybee_doll
I found, and still find, it much easier initially for me to be on top. after we get going a bit we can do whatever, but to start I find thats easiest on the female. just to answer the question!

nomad262
*drool*

carol_danny
We do a lot of anal sex, have been for years. Carol also really enjoys double penetration. We never use lube as Carol doesn't like the feeling of it. I just get her ready with my tongue

Because of our prostate, men get a more intense feeling from anal sex. If more men would just try it, they would see for themselves.

-- Danny

carol_danny
Here's a picture of Carol enjoying some anal sex with a boyfriend of hers. She always practises safer sex with guys other than me.

carol_danny
Just dug up this picture from quite a while ago! This is Carol enjoying a double penetration, with me in her ass and a friend in her pussy. This is Carol's prefered position for a DP.

-- Danny

jaymac
For a male being fucked in the ass is great,and then suck his cock dry.:P:P:P:P:P:P

BillySue32605
I also prefer to be on top during anal sex Lainy as you can control the action better...

Sue

oilup
JEEEEEZE!!!!! I'm moving to Canada near Carol and Danny!

jjfuncpl
Hubby gets off BIG TIME from anal. to watch his stomach muscles roll as he has what we can olny call a orgasum. Hae to say tookk a long time for me to let go and do it but now I too have my best O's from it.

uncut8_68
clean out with a enema and take it slow. use lots and lots of lube. my gf loves it . love it just as much if not more. what a incredible feeling

KindaNormalSFV
I love getting anal. I started out with fingers and built up with larger and larger dildoes (you should see the one I can take now!).

If I know or expect that later in the day or night I'll be enjoying some assplay, I usually give myself a little fucking with the dildoes ahead of time, just to loosen up a bit.

I've had women with strap-ons and other men. I really enjoy both.

bootylicouse20
damm that pic above with 2 cock going in is very hot my self i thought it hurt for the first time but then i got used to it and it felt so good lol

chillywilly
I am a somewhat experienced 'bottom' and I find that the most comfortable way (if you're not used to anal) seems to be to be bent over and approached from behind, doggy style. Of course it takes alot of 'preparation' like fingering and (small) toys first and gradually larger ones, once well relaxed, carefully inserting dick(or strap-on). If it is uncomfortale, stop and go back to fingers untill she (or he) relaxes then insert again.. Once you get used to it and your sphincter gets relaxed, the serious fun can begin. I enjoy it everyway, but the doggy style is my fave; I hope this helped answer the question...

bmuff2001
Anal foreplay is definetly required if you don't want to experience immediate discomfort. Lubricating and stretching makes insertion of a cock much easier and waaaaaay more enjoyable. Rimming is the perfect way to get things started, and a soft warm tongue to blaze the trail is the perfect tool.

B

kdance00
Okay, I think I am doing something wayyyyy wrong. This may be sad to say, but whenever I am being penetrated from the ass, it feels like I need to shit. I do it doggy style.

bi_guyandmeinpa
I like to be on top at first also just so I can control the initial penetration. After 2 minutes of that you can do me however and as hard as you like. I love being a bottom.

Rachel

lil_miss_cat_lover
GLAD THAT SO MANY PEOPLE ENJOY WHAT I CRAVE AS WELL ..ANY TIME ANYPLACE I SAY AND TO ANSWER A QUESTION..YES THERE IS SUCH A THING AS AN ANAL ORGASM..JUST ASK MY MATE..LORD HAVE MERCY. I CAN CUM MORE ANALLY THAN JUST REGULAR SEX..START SMALL WORK YOUR WAY UP ..AND BREATHE..

imthemankeith
I bought a but plug and a viberater and thay are both small I love to use them and now I told my wife I wish thay were biger.

rockinrobin_35
I've received anal sex once now. I d it!! I was face down on my hands and knees. Would it be better to lay on my back??

Lionessa
Umm errr anal is great but wouldn't it be kinda hard to have and lay on ur back?

Lionessa
uhhhhhhhhhhh I can just imagine lol

justlivin2in2it
Bingo! Here's a good starter ,or for that matter just good foreplay......have your partner lay on thier stomach ,rub thier ass getting them relaxed,put some lube on a finger and gently massage all around their opening......either you or they can work themselves as you massage ...as they relax ........allow them to push back aganst your finger as you slide it in .....allow them is the key word...........soon it's on to bigger and better things!

tony69tony
I agree you have to start small and work up, try a small butt plug, then move up, and lots of lube or you ass will hurt during and sting after. if you condition your ass properly it will be great the first time.

Try_sexual
Got to love it!!

hogan99
When using toys....... always best to soak them in very hot water right before you use them.....makes a world of difference

meanmywife
we are a bi m/f couple and the first time i took it up the a** i thought it would hurt but i took a 12' by 6" round and brfore he got off he was ramming it as hard as he could i used to go meet him and let him cum over any time with or without my wife i like to take those big ones hard and deep im looking for a 14
' so far no luck 12 is the biggest so far

Lionessa
Angie

If you read all the posts under this forum, I think you will have plenty of advice

male4fun2day
just take it nice and slow and start off with something small like a finger and work your way up to something larger.

bicuriousladyNga
I have found that for me, since I have trouble relaxing sometimes, that if I either am the one on top and in full control or laying on my side playing with my clit using a toy then I am wayyyyyy more relaxed for anal and love it alot more as well. I cannot relax without my using my vibrator at the same time. It is a way more intense orgasm than I have ever experienced vaginally. Just my thoughts but it may also work with others if they try it. The man cannot be in control of it at all. You have to be in total control and easing it in yourself to your liking and comfort zone if that makes sense.

bicuriousladyNga

alicia9249
I agree anal sex is the best. The first time I laid on my back. Now when I cum I cum from both ends at the same time

luv2bbottom
When I started anal I could only take a finger. Over the past years I've worked my way up to taking 4 fingers and some large dildos.

luv2bbottom
I started anal when I was 14 and could barely take my pinky. Over the years I've worked my way up to taking 4 fingers down to the knuckle. I'm also really interested in fisting. What works for me is a thorough enema. Relaxation. And just a drop of shampoo for lube. I don't know what it is in the shampoo that works, but it makes me relax and gets my own natural lube flowing.

ready4nu
they have anal numbing creams for beginners but i suggest the man wear a condom otherwise he can become desensitised.

ionsawmill
The three most important things to remember about anal sex:

Lubrication, lubrication and lubrication.

We start out slow with one finger. Then two fingers, then three. By the time we're up to four fingers, she's ready for a dildo or my cock. You have to be relaxed, and the person being penetrated has to be in control. Their partner has to be patient and take their time.

redhots
Did someone say anal

bi_xxy
Just stay relaxed breath normal I love it !!

longcock
i personally love anal sex !!! i read also that there are a lot more nerve endings there,which makes it more enjoyable. all i know is,i love it

longcock
here is a pic of me

digitlxtc
Mike and I have done it recently and it took me over a year to take it. (Mike is big though so I knew I had to work up to that size) So I used a very small vibrator and tons of lube, and then, a little bigger vibe. We read that the girl should be on her hands and knees the first time, and back into his cock. It will hurt at first, but breathe through it, and the pain turns into pleasure in no time. I was surprised how I could take all of him finally after a year or so of prep time.

It still hurts at first for me, but if I just concentrate and relax, it gets better and better each time. I am however looking forward to a no pain experience....LOL Have fun!Heather

kiefer
I like it standing, although I've only used toys I would love to try Mike's 8 incher. Good for you Heather.

CrazieChaplin09
Im nervous to try anal...my hubby loves it but i am just worried it will hurt...I want him in my tight virgin ass...any good tips to make it less painful and tips on how i can be sure he will love it?

healthytantra
I'd say - since he's your hubby, make sure he:

1 - uses a lot of lube, it's hot, and he does a proper warm-up! Make sure it's warm, you're warm and soft, and turn the heat up! Cold is a killer. Keep it hot, keep the muscles relaxed.
Make sure in playing that he can stretch those muscles and warm them up, strengthening and loosening them for the big day. Kiefer's right - vibrators are a great way to start. :D

2 - pay close attention to the anus - the more he plays with your butt button, the more he'll find times where it "looks, feels, and acts right" - I swear with my partner the closer she is to period the more "open" her anus seems.

2.5

3 - Probiotics. They can keep you regular and keep your digestive system, anus included, in better health than anything else.

And last but not least, PASSION It's a big turn on that makes so much go the right way!!!

NEPAcuriousmale
wOW ...GREAT TOPIC LOTS OF GOOD INPUT

n2itnow
on my back gives a sense of deeper penetration and it leaves my cock available to myself or anyone else. on my stomach gives more sense of invasion, being snuck up on, and on my knees makes for the most vigorous action. I like my partner on their knees first and back second, propped up so they are at a good height.
plugs are great. different sizes can help stretch the muscles over time and make other things easier and more fun. and the full feeling they give is just fabulous. when there is nothing else around...

utahguy_99
There was a time,when asked what one sex act I would prefer if I could only have ONE for the rest of my life...well, it was to be had anally...from a very young tender age, I found it wickedly delicious.

Curiousfun36
I have had anal sex once and LOVED it! I can't wait to do it again and would love to try double penetration...

NaughtyKat
I find it easier to be on top,if hes above average.Altho I love it in any position. Make sure your relaxed and plenty of lube untill your more experienced with it.
I also prefer to give myself an enema if I think ill be doing something back there.

testingwaters13
Having never done anything like this before, how clean should I be? Should I do a cleansing enema before or just wash the outside? If I should enema, what works best? I understand the lube and starting small. Thanks for the standing or laying on my side tips.

BekDen
I love anal sex...but I have to be in the mood. I like the feel of it when a hard cock "pops" through. The hurt/joy drives me crazy. Slow is best for me till I get used to it...then all bets are off...lol. Need some lube though.

NEPAcuriousmale
still a great topic and great answers from all

Lkn4aTen
I don't necessarily agree that women like anal more than men. The pressure of a hard in a mans ass puts pressure on the prostate, hence "milking" the prostate. The best orgasm I've ever had was with something in my ass. Honestly, I've only been with maybe 3 women who "enjoyed" anal sex. Mrs.Lkn will get off EVERY time I stroke the Hershey Hole. She truly does love it...Lucky Me!!! The men I've done it with absolutely loved it and so did I.

Lkn4aTen
When I first "received", the guy I was with gave me advise which I have told to everyone who isn't experienced, upon initial penetration, you should "push out" not exactly like your going number 2 (lol) but more like passing gas...It relaxes the sphincter (M and F) after your past that it should be smooth sailing with a woman...If it's a man, slowly keep penetrating past the prostrate. Once it's relaxed....stroke away big boy!!!! Just my thoughts on this...I could be wrong.

johnfreeluv
I have only had fingers in my ass, but want to find a nice guy to pop my cherry

socurious4u71
I dont really like anal.. Way to uncomfortable for me... but my man... he love it!

fraidybeast
The first time she did me was with a 10" strap on. We found that it was easier for me doggy style because of my back problems. I clinch up when my back is hurting. So doggy with me propped up on body pillows worked great we loved it. I love being anally fucked and fucked hard.

thehowards
I personally love having anal sex with my husband i defiantly know he likes doing it

Cman99
I've never actually had anal with a guy but I've used a dildo. I think it's great. Just use lube haha

crushed
Unfortunitly max and i have tried several times, i just cant seam to relax enough or i am just to small a woman. I know max wants so much to fuck me ass. I watched as max fucked Victoria's ass. the two of them seamed to be in heaven. max almost passed out from his orgasm and Victoria had the most amazing screaming orgasm.
I have tried anal probes. i got the smallest one in but it was very uncomforable. i did try to leave it in for a while but just could not.it hurt to much. is there anyway someone as small as i am can find away to enjoy it. i have tried tons of lube, small anal probes of different styles to no avail. any other ideas?? the problem also is that max's cock i a bit thinker than most men i have experianced. so gettng ny anus to open even futher worries me help me please to give max something he so desperitaly would love to do and i would love to give it to him
Teri

LadySoul
I love it and my husband loves it. I love experiencing how hard he comes when I am penetrating his ass with fingers while I hold my mouth over his cock. Mmmm...gotta go find him now.

whimsical1
Caveat: Not intended to be medical advice and may not be safe: Utilize at your own risk:

From the hardware store:
Ice maker supply line tubing (kit w/garden hose fitting/adapter)
One adapter: faucet to garden hose

From the Health food store:
Bees wax
Coconut oil

From the sex toy store:
little mini-bullet
bullet
G-spot and/or prostate vibes
beads
small anal plug/vibe id available

Attach the dangerous tubing thang to the bathroom sink faucet and have a seat...hey...there's a chair!

8-P

You will need to adjust temperature and be certain it's a STABLE temp, nobody can flush the toilet in the other bathroom and scald you---and easy on the pressure
NEVER apply something like this to a vagina, I know women use showerheads, but this may be dangerous.

And use caution and common sense--if your water temp/pressure are unstable you could injure yourself badly...call it a failure and convert to beer bong style device

But with a little of the bees wax on your fingertip coat the tip and guide the tube and take in as much water as you can at a time and then go with the flow...rinse and repeat...

I couldn't fathom a little enema doing a thorough job, and with our modern diet...you may be amazed how much better you feel after a good cleanse.

IMO being really clean is key to the whole thing, clean, comfortable, RELAXED.

And don't rush it..that's delicate tissue and it's not realistic to expect you can accomodate a cock first time...explore fingers for awhile first...try some small beads those are fun.

Be also warned that sex toys somtimes (usually) have toxic leftovers on the surface...brand new...and some likely out-gas.....if it burns(burning sensation)...something is not right either the toy or lube is toxic,.

A while back high school kids had a fad of taking liquor shots analy--somehow and it absorbs into the blood faster that route sombody died..so beware toxic sex toys...

Anyhow I like beeswax and coconut oil as lubes(start with the wax and small toys/fingers...then switch to the oil for "glide"

I don't trust the chemicals listed on the lube products, (the wax, oil I buy is organic, only one ingredient on the label..)

Take your time...major orgasms if you do!

I've acheived analgasm(not prostate, not penile climax) twice...
took awhile...was worth it haha.

beautyndabeast11
Anal sex is great for me laying on my back.. I feel more in control

Looking4aLETTE420
Anal just have to he on the same page as your partner I want to be humiliated and hurt no matter how hard and fast it goes in

gardianangel
In tried it twice. The first time was not enjoyable. However, the second time with a different partner must've known how to be gently first before he went to town and I enjoyed every minute and had two orgasms.

Tina38b
Double penetration is a fantastic feeling!!!!!!!!!!
But just anal is lovely too.
Some people just have problems with the "hygene" side of things, which is silly if you ask me.
I know that guys love it & I've been told many times of how much tighter my bum is than my "pussy", which I know you guys love. Feels real good to me too & gives me a unique kind of climax that is far more internal & intense than standard vaginal sex.

I find doggy style with legs fairly well spread is the most comfortable way to start, but as has been mentioned, once you get going all initial or any discomfort soon disappears.

wetangel68
Hubby and I both LOVE anal sex. Tip for everyone... don't just shove it all way in like a pussy... lots of lube and ease in ever so slowly... anybody wanna cum join us??? Seeking bi male and bi female couple to satisfy our bi urges...

wetangel68
Hubby and I both LOVE anal sex. Tip for everyone... don't just shove it all way in like a pussy... lots of lube and ease in ever so slowly... anybody wanna cum join us??? Seeking bi male and bi female couple to satisfy our bi urges...

poppadog3
Would love to join u but am too far away and I'm black. U give good advice "Don't just shove it in, put it in a little at a time as the receiver gets used to having their ass penetrated with lubed dick".

LoveOurThongs
We both LOVE anal. For me it’s never hurt and feels amazing. We both get intense anal orgasms and now she prefers anal. I got lucky and now she’s prepped and stretched and loves it.

John09
I'm available today in FT Myers area

BiDiscreteMaleMD
My wife enjoys anal sex when we have a session going and she has already came a few times. For me, my experience is limited and I wish I had a man who was experienced with newbies. My wife fingers it and licks it and I love it. If a guy is laying on his back, I can mount his cock and fuck it like a rabbit and I enjoy it. However, if a man enters me doggie or missionary, very painful and I have not let them break me in yet in those positions.

Seekawoman
I love giving and receiving anal. I have the most intense orgasms from performing anal while getting anal, especially when the position strokes the gspot in a woman and a cock hitting my prostate.
TOO THE MOON ALICE. 🌙

Seekawoman
Sugarcane , congrats on your topic. Hottest one going. 🔥 I love giving and receiving anal in Southern most Michigan and Indiana and Ohio area.
Your cock is amazing. Bi the way

stillc
Training my but every time before having anal sex. At first, I tried to do it with my fingers, but later I tried butt plug and wow the result is amazing. I started experimenting with different types. B-Vibe Rechargeable Anal Training kit is my favorite. If you don't know what to start with, I recommend you it, because it can help you to get prepared for any size.

Kurrly4912
Does anyone ever check dates first posted anymore?

CKSUKER58
I love anal very much. I get so hard and oooz a ton of precum