D6ltgfSince the pandemic it’s way worse!
I wasn’t looking for a perfect ten like in the movies
I wanted a normal looking person to have a long term friends with benefits type relationship with, someone who I could hang out with but when the mood was right also enjoy each other sexually
It was possible but it isn’t now!
Blow and go’s , nervous people who can’t calm down enough to enjoy being caught up in the moment!
Fantasy’s are just that ! Fantasy’s!
Rarely do they go as they are perfectly planned out in your mind,
What this site was meant to be was normal everyday people to get together and have sex but also enjoy one another
But it’s a meat market with nothing more than tire kickers and dreamers!
I have met people on here in the past but society as a whole has suffered a loss !
A loss of knowing that there is a person behind the screen
An actual real live person that needs to be touched!
We live in a dome now only leaving it to do what we need to survive and then returning to view others with our devices not understanding our loss of connection as a society
It gets worse as time goes on and on and on !
The very few who actually find a connection are so very lucky because it’s rare !
I joined this site to meet people who I had hoped would be my friends as well as lovers but found it like most things during and after the pandemic as un for filling,
People not even reading my profile before sending me a message ,

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Things of that nature
Oh and my favorite is people who don’t take time to write out messages but talk to their phones and it’s so jumbled that it doesn’t make any sense!
Showing that even words don’t matter to them so how could I matter?
Real people are a dying breed !
Posers you say ?
Yes the world now is being taken over by them !
Only one way to stop it and that is one person at a time giving a thought or a gesture to someone else besides themselves!
I hope this world fixes itself somehow by putting down the phones and shutting down the computers and walking away from it at least on the weekends and connecting with real live people and actually talking face to face
If your older then close your eyes and think back before having this phone attached to you every second of every day
Think how amazing it was to find someone on the beach or just hanging out somewhere and suddenly finding out that you shared a bond of whatever ?
You just made a friend !