OK, so its something that guys (and I don't know about girls) have done since the beginning of sexual awareness... we masturbate. Love that word. How clinical it is. In some strange way, I do love the word.... masturbatory problems, mental masturbation.... and others. For me it conjures a nasty element by the sound of the word. Is "masturb" like "disturb"???
Rhetoric aside, I totally enjoy jacking dick. (There, its another term. Feel better?) My mind can go anywhere, and I know just how to make it feel best for me. And to that end, I know that others do the same. Its gunna feel good, and knowing that, and watching another guy do that same primal ritual makes my own dick grow harder. I identify it with the masculine rites and to watch and enjoy another guy get off... oh yeah! It gets hotter if he struts his stuff, a bit of attitude, its his manhood, and we celebrate that. And the final reward, that shot of white that internally I know he's feelin good... real good. We spend hours cruising the internet, the bars, wherever we spend all that time and money just for the ever-powerful moment of cumming. A 30-second moment of ecstasy, all in my hand, this time at least.
Years ago I hooked up with a guy that, for all intents and purposes, felt guilty about any sex with another man. The prescribed activity... just jackin. I'm assertive in this sort of thing... and he sat on his sofa, his cock in hand, wide-eyed as I got into stripping and straddling him, strokin my tool and bringing it right up to his face. We never touched each other. But I shot a load all over his chest and stomach and he was wild. It became a regular thing of sorts, and when he called, and I realized that it was him, my dick started getting hard just talking to him. (Pavlov, your dogs aren't the only horn-dogs on the block!)
So all this to say, anyone, anytime, planned or not planned, can come by and get one off with me, pending prior commitment. Hey, traveling thru town and need some release? No problem. I don't guarantee more, but I'll at least gladly watch. Probably join in because I'm perpetually horny. Ut ohhhh, my dick is rising to the thought just now... gotta go.
Oh, and by the way... I've never watched a women masturbate. I'd be up for that also.... pending prior commitment, of course.