Some how for a great many, the meaning of "Bi"-sexual gets lost in translation. "For me", as a "Bi"-sexual man, I find myself attracted to the idea of having sex with particular women AND particular men. Men that are ONLY attracted to other men (and this is NOT meant derogatorily) are "Gay" and "prefer" sex with other men "ONLY".
I guess it is not perceived the same by ALL women that there is this significant distinction between the two. It seems to permeate from the frequent use of the term "bisexual" used in the female self identity when you read their profile and they are ONLY seeking a FEMALE partner. This is a "Lesbian"? Correct? That is not to say that a women using this identity would not engage in sex with a man but that she "prefers" or is seeking ONLY a female partner.
One troubling thing to me is the frequent "stigmatism" given to "Bi"sexual men, is that we are somehow less "masculine, less assertive towards women or unable to perform sexually in a masculine role with women. Not so, at least not in my perspective. I love eating pussy, fucking pussy, fucking titties, getting head and hand jobs, shoving my raging hard cock deep in her ass or spraying my cum all over anywhere she wanted or pumping it inside whatever orifice she desires as well. The same is true where a "particular" guy I find attractive! And even desire that another "particular" guy, use me like a fuck toy shoving his raging hard cock up my ass or blasting his hot load of cum down my throat or deep inside my ass.
Is this making sense or am I just not getting the "unwritten understanding", that though women that are "Bi"-sexual can be either Lesbian (seeking women only) or bisexual (sexing either or both genders) but, where men are concerned "Bi"-sexual means "gay" or seeking men only because if you're a "Bi"-sexual man, you for some reason do not "function" as a man with a women any more but "must" prefer sex with other men?
Just had to throw this out there because as a "Bi" guy, I love the fun of enjoying the maximum facility to as many partners as I'm attracted to whether they are men or women and most fun of all when "BOTH" are available simultaneously. I have been in relationships with women that comprehend this and it's "a beautiful thing", and here at a place I've grown to love and enjoy the like mindedness of fellow sexually active and appreciative people, I hoped this might enlighten some to even more joy and fun that is available when the proper comprehension of terminology is recognized. Geez, I sound too "wordy" in all of this, I just hope my point gets across. I feel better though ;) Love everbodies! Hug