BiNJshore | It is damn hard, I've been looking for a long time too. A lot of women are curious or more, they just won't admit it until they know the guy enough to feel comfortable and that takes time. They need to know they can trust the guy, before bringing another fem into the picture and not threaten the realtionship she has established. Sexual pleasure adventures should enhance the relationship, not threaten it, but most people due to social upbringing cannot deal with it. Since you are still young (haha), perhaps another approach.... date some of the women, after a couple of hot steamy session, just ask if there is interest, you might be quite surprised? Look for clues, if the date already has a bare pussy..... most straight women I know don't go that far till I do it for them hehehehehe 95% of the women that I know that are bi, shave, they don't like curly dental floss any more that the guys do!!!!! |
UniversalPotentate | Oh brother ... This is the problem with LABELS. He's bisexual, of course. But I don't mean that in a "social label" way. I mean that in a good ol' fashion scientific Kinsey sort of way. Most people don't realize that Kinsey's scale didn't measure subjective desire but rather number of sexual partners. Take a male who's had sex with 20 people. If you had sex with 10 men and 10 women, you'd be a 3 on the Kinsey scale. If you had sex with 20 men, you'd be a 1. If you had sex with 20 women, you'd be a 6. However, most people don't want to measure your HISTORY, they want to measure your desires & tendencies, in other words, your FUTURE. Taking Kinsey's idea and expanding upon it, we can look at the future. How many instances in his life has he had sex with a man? How many instances in his life has he had sex with a woman? This takes the emphasis off from the number of partners and puts it on the number of sexual encounters and sexual experience. Further, to look at sexual interest, the simplest question would be to rate the experience on a 1 to 5 scale. 1 is Would NOT repeat. 2 is I would prefer to not repeat the experience. 3 is I might or might not repeat. 4 is I would prefer to repeat the experience. 5 is I am trying to repeat this experience. People categorize experiences ... like Homosexual and Heterosexual. Most women, however, do not aggressively try different kinds of sexual things. In general, they're boring and bad at sex. They're taught that their vaginas are precious ... so they don't have to do anything to please a man but show up. Most men, however ... especially gay men, are in constant sexual competition. Suck better, fuck harder, get kinkier! More lean muscle, more cum, more sweat! In general, they're good at sex. If you REALLY categorized the kind of sex he likes, you might discover he's bisexual but keeps coming back to YOU because you're really good at sex. He likes GOOD sex ... but he confused it with sex with men. He thinks he's gay ... but really he wants good sex. In my own conversations with "gay" men, I've discovered that they're really bisexual but they can't deal with women interpersonally. Most men find women overly emotional and therefore don't consider them as partners. When I look at how most straight men treat women (at least in this USA), they also see women as a thing that hangs on their shoulder. Women with minds are the exception, not the rule. You apparently are a good lover with a brain. He can relate to you on a sexual, emotional and mental level. Also, you two seem to want the same kind of relationship ... friends with benefits. So, in that way, you're a complete match! Obviously, you're a special and unique sort of woman. Ask him a few questions like Kinsey. Figure out what he LIKES. You might discover it's not the gender that's the primary focus of his attraction. It could only make you a better lover ... and you may learn something about yourself. Keep us posted! :-) |
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