Ruready2roll | I have decided to broaden my horizons and try new things. Easy going , calm and in control. But I think I would like to try not being in control for once and be used and humiliated a little bit. |
666sissy4use | Sissy faggot whore looking for domination and control. would love to have a Master take full control of everything. |
xenapryn | I'm outgoing, smart and intelligent woman. I'm very in control of my life so I like others to be in control in the bedroom. |
paradox1959 | I am very new to this,I would like to experience more,but am somewhat cautious.I would like to meet a couple or single woman if at all possible to get into this a bit more slowly. Being a Leo I need to control my own detiny,but unlike most other Leo's I do not want to or need to control others. |
dtom72 | I am a person who likes control, but not complete control. I enjoy watching, but will jump in when it feels right. I am bi-curious, but have yet to act...I have to had a reason to act. |
deferentsub | i am sexually submissive and seeking a Domme or Dom to whom i may give control. it is more about control than it is about sex for me. |
carl07022 | I never felt control about my sexuality was an issue. My thinking was that if I decide to experience something, then, I am in control. I control the decisions I make, the experiences I encounter and still reserve the right to just say no, I'm not interested. It was never a dominance vs. submissive decision. I control what comes out of my mouth as well as what goes in. |
matthewmichael | usually I top, but when I'm really turned on or into the guy, it's great to let him top me. Men are use to being in control. letting someone top me is giving him control, sometimes it isn't easy to give that kind of control. I am happily married to a beautiful, wonderful woman who understands that sometimes I want a man. |
ShavedSmoothBi | Most importantly you are in control. I couldn't agree more with everything said so far. IF you try the dildo and you like it then move on to the threesome, but keep in mind that you must be in control. I have had several DP experiences, and the worst is where the other male gets excited and out of control and ends up hurting the female in the trio. Whereas when the female has maintained total control it has been a mind blowing, exciting and fulfilling experience for all three. SO... My experience is that YOU need to set the speed and movement. If you can't be vocal and commanding about your needs and wants then I wouldn't try it. |
Librablue | Respectfully, these are your own words: 1. "know i know this is crazy but i feel if he does the same to the guy he may some where down the road turn gay but if he just let the guy suck him and he penetrate the guy he still has all the power." 2 "oh believe me i do not feel powerless in my relationship, we've done things along the line of this subject an i was fine with it I'm just saying adding a guy i would rather see him in control. i wouldn't be turned off if he was to submit to a guy i just picture him in control." VP, no one is saying your judgmental, what is picked up from your posts is the constant issue of "control" you seem to need to affirm in your mind that your man is in control, what's up with that? |
BiNJshore | Since when does being on the recieving end of a dick mean that anyone is giving up control? Just ask women that if they are getting nailed that they are not in control hahahaha Don't confuse D/s "topping" with good sexual adventures!!!! From a non D/s perspective - topping means nothing more than the top it the sticker, and the bottom is the stickee - usually nothing to do with control unless that is the relationship desired. |
bicuriousladyNga | I have found that for me, since I have trouble relaxing sometimes, that if I either am the one on top and in full control or laying on my side playing with my clit using a toy then I am wayyyyyy more relaxed for anal and love it alot more as well. I cannot relax without my using my vibrator at the same time. It is a way more intense orgasm than I have ever experienced vaginally. Just my thoughts but it may also work with others if they try it. The man cannot be in control of it at all. You have to be in total control and easing it in yourself to your liking and comfort zone if that makes sense. bicuriousladyNga |
AngelatHeart | Being Tied Up Love when my wrists and ankles are bound and my partner has total control as it's hard for me to let go of the control in sex. |
Diamond2005 | Cock Sucking Giving head is one of the only times during sex your in complete control over a man.I believe wars were lost or won due to the skill of one persons hot mouth. i am a control freak so i might be a little biased ,but if you want to get a man to do what you want,learn how to suck his dick and make his eyes roll back into the top of his head and he will buy you Forte Knox if it is possible lol Diamond2005 Kiss |
bikitelicka | Cunnilingus This subject really gets me hottt just thinking about it. I love to have a woman ride my face like there is no tomorrow. I love this position most because she controls the rhythm and I control the tongue (unless I grab her by the hips then I control everything) Every drop of sweet, sweet cum is dripping directly into my mouth and access to all areas (clit, vagina, ass) is open and ready. YUMMMY!!! I can eat pussy all night or until one of us feels like passing out from exhaustion. I love to hear a woman scream because she just can't cum anymore. I think I need to make a phone call. Damn I'm getting hot. |
oo7dot | Couples Dominating Women My first wife and I were very good at taking Full Control & Dominating Ladies. We were in a position where we enjoyed controlling many of our employees lives, and really enjoyed doing just that. Several of these ladies were full blown sex slaves to be used as we pleases..... A WE PLEASED ALOT!!!! With three of these ladies, We brought their husbands into our little game to dominate them together as a couple. GOOD TIMES!! She was the control freak & had unbelievable power over women.... I mostly gleaned the benefits of her charms, talents, skills & power. Damn I hated losing that part of her in the divorce....... Where is the 'Community Property Law' when you need it:| |
Neverbeenthere | Alpha Bull I'd like to be under your control sometime |
samantha_05 | BDSM partner has complete control over everything |