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I'm a bisexual woman who is very much into women, I love to be controlled sometimes but I would love to have a submissive woman. I am sweet, romantic and loving. My partner is a very straight man who is only into women, he loves control but can be a sweet man with a twist of roughness. We are looking for a submissive female for us to share but for me to mainly control, a male for a threesome (he has to know no play with my man.) or a couple with a bisexual woman. More details will be shared after some talking back and forth :)
My name is Melissa, I'm a proud bisexual lady. I just recently got engaged to a wonderful man who is the love of my life. I love to cook, take pictures, and watch I Love Lucy on TV Land! I'm playful, naughty, and love to connect with open minded individuals! I'm a true hedonist, I love traveling and having great conversations. Looking for a sexy female to join me and my man on the NEXT LEVEL. Sometimes I like to be in control and sometimes I like to be taken control OF!
Sissy faggot whore looking for domination and control. would love to have a Master take full control of everything.
I have decided to broaden my horizons and try new things. Easy going , calm and in control. But I think I would like to try not being in control for once and be used and humiliated a little bit.
I'm outgoing, smart and intelligent woman. I'm very in control of my life so I like others to be in control in the bedroom.
I am very new to this,I would like to experience more,but am somewhat cautious.I would like to meet a couple or single woman if at all possible to get into this a bit more slowly. Being a Leo I need to control my own detiny,but unlike most other Leo's I do not want to or need to control others.
I never felt control about my sexuality was an issue. My thinking was that if I decide to experience something, then, I am in control. I control the decisions I make, the experiences I encounter and still reserve the right to just say no, I'm not interested. It was never a dominance vs. submissive decision. I control what comes out of my mouth as well as what goes in.
usually I top, but when I'm really turned on or into the guy, it's great to let him top me. Men are use to being in control. letting someone top me is giving him control, sometimes it isn't easy to give that kind of control. I am happily married to a beautiful, wonderful woman who understands that sometimes I want a man.
Most importantly you are in control. I couldn't agree more with everything said so far. IF you try the dildo and you like it then move on to the threesome, but keep in mind that you must be in control. I have had several DP experiences, and the worst is where the other male gets excited and out of control and ends up hurting the female in the trio. Whereas when the female has maintained total control it has been a mind blowing, exciting and fulfilling experience for all three. SO... My experience is that YOU need to set the speed and movement. If you can't be vocal and commanding about your needs and wants then I wouldn't try it.
Respectfully, these are your own words:

1. "know i know this is crazy but i feel if he does the same to the guy he may some where down the road turn gay but if he just let the guy suck him and he penetrate the guy he still has all the power."

2 "oh believe me i do not feel powerless in my relationship, we've done things along the line of this subject an i was fine with it I'm just saying adding a guy i would rather see him in control. i wouldn't be turned off if he was to submit to a guy i just picture him in control."

VP, no one is saying your judgmental, what is picked up from your posts is the constant issue of "control" you seem to need to affirm in your mind that your man is in control, what's up with that?
Since when does being on the recieving end of a dick mean that anyone is giving up control? Just ask women that if they are getting nailed that they are not in control hahahaha Don't confuse D/s "topping" with good sexual adventures!!!! From a non D/s perspective - topping means nothing more than the top it the sticker, and the bottom is the stickee - usually nothing to do with control unless that is the relationship desired.
I have found that for me, since I have trouble relaxing sometimes, that if I either am the one on top and in full control or laying on my side playing with my clit using a toy then I am wayyyyyy more relaxed for anal and love it alot more as well. I cannot relax without my using my vibrator at the same time. It is a way more intense orgasm than I have ever experienced vaginally. Just my thoughts but it may also work with others if they try it. The man cannot be in control of it at all. You have to be in total control and easing it in yourself to your liking and comfort zone if that makes sense.

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Being Tied Up
Love when my wrists and ankles are bound and my partner has total control as it's hard for me to let go of the control in sex.
Cock Sucking
Giving head is one of the only times during sex your in complete control over a man.I believe wars were lost or won due to the skill of one persons hot mouth. i am a control freak so i might be a little biased ,but if you want to get a man to do what you want,learn how to suck his dick and make his eyes roll back into the top of his head and he will buy you Forte Knox if it is possible lol Diamond2005 Kiss
Men Sucking Dick With Women Participating
I guess my fantasy would be to meet an attractive bisexual couple (man and woman) where everyone just "clicked." Then, we'd go somewhere to get to know one another. After we achieved rapport and privacy I would be invited into their erotic milieu. We would slowly disrobe, watching each other as the most interesting parts are revealed in the open. We would be aroused seeing each others best features. Perhaps I might be a little undecided, even hesitant, at least at first. However, seeing how well constructed and anxious they were would surely swell my membrane and seek the forbidden encounters that would come to the daring. Witnessing my anxiety, the girl would take control and bridge the divide, caressing and stroking my Johnson, holding it tightly. The guy and his mistress would start competing for my erection. I would be so stiff and straight, not knowing who to go to first. I could not stand it as she grabs my balls, squeezes, and guides my shaft into her lover's mouth. He's sucking the head and holding the length of my stiff penis. I kiss the girl, a deep French kiss, and caress her bosoms. I can feel the strong suction from below—exquisite. We lay down so I can access her moist shaven pussy, first with my fingers….then my mouth—seeking her clitoris. I am eating her sweetness and caressing her breasts with my up-ward stretched hands. My tongue is deep inside her as she moans. After a half an hour or so, I can no longer retain control and explode with my cum, deep inside his mouth. Then we'd switch positions. We'd have photographs taken of this adventure to share with others on the Bisexual Playground website.
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49 year old bisexual man . 6 ft 190 lbs Long Island . NY . Looking for bisexual couples or couples with bisexual men . Let me go down on the both of you ! And I love giving and receiving anal sex as well .
Aggressive Women
I have always loved an aggressive, assertive lady that knows what she wants & wants to talk about about it. My ultiment sexual pleasure & goal in to please one or more women. That is much easier to accomplish when she is willing so share with me what from me. Another really big fantasy of mine, is to take part in a female choreographed & directed Bisexual episode, with herself, a couple, a mixed group, one or more men or even an orgy. To give her complete control of every act. To force me into places that I'd never go on my own. To find & push my limits. WOW! That would be Fabulous ! ! Here again, there is very little if anything I would not do for that assertive Woman or Women for that matter. OMG just the thought of it gives me chills............... Have Fun & Be HAPPY D i c k:):-P:):-P:):-P
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I hope you all ladies like this I am a bisexual woman looking for more bisexual women and of course men but definitely for sure need more bisexual women in the life to be sexual with through messages

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