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I recently got invited to meet with someone ( actually two people) from this site, just out of the blue!
I didn’t look at their profiles but they looked at mine!
Sounds nice right?
There’s this thing, like a voice in the back of my head that’s kept me safe and alive and pretty much out of harms way for most of my life and here’s what it’s saying to me right now!
CAUTION!
I have been invited to a hotel by a woman and yeah that sounds great but in her profile she states that she only wants to meet in public for a first time meeting,
The second one just wants to give me head !
Doesn’t want anything else but just to give me head !
That might sound nice but that’s kinda impersonal to a guy like myself who is really looking for a steady FWB !
Steady person that can get to know me and understand how we click!
So what if I was to answer these and agree to meet?
There’s tons of scammers out there and it’s getting more dangerous every day!
Not saying that these people are dangerous or anything but if this suddenly overzealous behavior just after the new year doesn’t make the hair stand up on the back of your neck then it’s time you think before acting on impulse only!
It’s made me realize something about meeting up with someone from this site or any site and the complaints we hear on here constantly about people saying that they’ll meet then don’t!
Maybe it’s their fear of being used or robbed or maybe worse?
Back way back then sex with a stranger felt safer !
Maybe it’s our current world we live in that everything and even people are expendable?
If you do decide to meet someone who has that little voice in your head telling you not to here’s a couple of things you might do just in case you disappear maybe?
# 1 Never bring your wallet with you or any money,
# 2 before leaving your house take the time to write out where your going and place it somewhere convenient for police to find ,
# 3 Always park your car away from the meeting and walk to wherever it is you’re meeting this person!
# 4 Never meet someone in a hotel just blindly because you may not actually meet the person who you think your meeting!
This might actually be the single most reason for not meeting people is that we have learned not to trust people anymore and it’s frightening to think that just from something that we all need and desire and that’s people who enjoy the same things we do is changing the way we view the world around us!
Please be safe and listen to that little voice in your head because it’s been put there for a reason!
Not to make it so we never meet but to make sure we meet in public and actually talk or share a coffee and just learn something about that person before we get naked!
Thanks for reading!

BiDocAndVixie
Bravo. Your suggestions are excellent. All of them. And I would sum it up wirh, "Trust Your Instincts"
The internet has greatly facilitated like minded people meeting for recreational sex. But the anonymity has also facilited misrepresentations, scams, and dangerous liasons. If someone raises caution flags, proceed at your own risk, keeping in mind that if someone seems too good to be true, they usually are.
Have fun, but stay safe. And when you do find a fun playmate, treat them well. They are definitely worth it.