First meeting would be someplace public,
house or Bar, talk, feel each other out. See if we would want to do it again. Maybe meet a second time in a more intimate setting, and if we're comfortable move someplace private.
t slowly touching, stroking, feeling, maybe kissing, hugging, pressing our bodies against each other, putting our hands down each others pants, slowly undressing each other, getting completely naked, bringing each other to climax manually and orally, and then take it from there.