With both: We are a secure MWC in our 28 year marriage looking to spice things up but do not want a new partner like I don't want another wife. Both discovered our bi side a few years ago, was surprisingly hot for both of us both being with same sex people and watching the other have so much fun. Like to meet but not desperate to hookup. Rather have 1 quality M or F single or MF couple than 100 bed notches with wrong people. And now since our youngest went to college this fall more time and energy to try and find quality partners.
Mr. Lookingiansa1 is a creative high energy person, never met a stranger kind of guy. Rejection junkie after selling things door to door years ago. Can go to a party not knowing anyone and mix in without needing alcohol. Easy to get to know conversation starter on Meyers Brigs ENTP get along with about everyone if we don't it doesn't mean your a bad person just not for us.
Mrs. Lookingiansa1 is the talkative one
lol. No my wife is a nice woman quiet and a little shy at first but once she gets to know you she will be very loyal to people once trust and connection is established.