Caucasian

Only when it's requested

I have had a few experiences (still a beginner)

5' 10, 290 lbs. (Overweight)

Short Red

Blue

I have glasses, and I wear them all the time

50 - 99

Single Men
Single Women
Couples

Internet
Phone
Meeting in person
Short Term Relationship

1 on 1 Sexual Relationship
M-F-F Threesome
M-M-F Threesome
M-F-M Threesome
F-M-F Threesome
Foursome
Group Sex
Other Alternative Lifestyle

Retired - Looking for discreet periodi weekday daytime encounters. (Possibly some weekends days of late mornings or early afternoons.)

PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ MY COMPLETE PROFILE. IF YOU IF YOU ARE REALY INTERESTED YOU WILL READ MY COMPLETE PROFILE. IF YOU CAN'T TOLERATE OBESE PEOPLE DON'T CONTACT ME PLEASE. AND IF YOU REPLY TO SAY NO. DON'T START FAT SHAMING ME. JUST MOVE THE FUCK ON. I know it is long - but it should answer most of your questions about me.

I can very RARELY host. Must be flexible about scheduling and able to handle last min cancellations. Also, seeking FWB's - all ages considered. ALSO, if you live more than about 30 miles from me the chances are that it isn't going to happen. It's just too far for "questions not to be asked." Must be extremely discreet as I will be for you. (And yes, I am a cheater. And if you are interested in more please PM me.

UPDATE ON WEIGHT 03/22/2020 - I've recently lost significant weight Over the past 18 months. I've gone from about 390 lbs to about 275 bs. Hopefully the weight loss will continue.

I still consider myself as a large MWM "Bear" a "person of size" retired. My basic stats are already on the profile. And yes, unfortunately I am a "cheater." If you want more on this please PM me.

If you can't handle large older men then please do not contact me. Full red hair. ( Do not look my age at all. I typically get "pegged" at around 60.) Have a great sense of humor - particularly sarcastic. I would like to meet men (bi or gay) that are not fems or "flamers" and bi couples in the RTP area.* I prefer educated, intelligent individuals. However, if you are just intelligent then I'll probably be interested. (There is a difference between being intelligent and "educated". Some of the most unintelligent stupid people I know are the most "educated". Anyway, if you know that difference then you are probably my kind of guy!) I'm looking for "regular" guys basically. No drunks, druggies or "bullies". (Occassional 420 friendly is OK.) Clean, STD free and regularly tested like myself. Not into extreme red necks, heavy "biker" or "leather" or heavy into "tats" look. I prefer older (50+) and younger (18-26) guys that have some weight on them. If you are younger and have some weight I most likely will consider you - provided that you "reciprocate" and know that I am NOT looking for a "relationship". I'm NOT a "Sugardaddy" - so if you're expecting compensation it isn't going to happen. Would like some 1-on-1 or group action. Discretion is an absolute must - already have been "caught" twice and as they say "the third time will be a charm" and I'm certain that it will cost me big time - LOL?!?! Would like to join a group of other bi men - married or single - that can possibly meet for some "legitimate" reasons so that we can get out of house without raising too many suspicions. (Which CAN be a real issue at times for me.) My hobbies include playing cards, reading, photography, most shooting sports, football, hockey, fishing and very rarely golf. I'm also a great history buff. As far as the bedroom activities go I like long slow sessions (When that actually can occur!) mutual masturbation, circle jerks, oral with heavy ball playing and sucking, cum and porn (Straight and/or older gay or bi, perverted etc. Want to try some "edging." Also want to try some "docking" with an uncut. I expect "reciprocation" - you get in return what you give. So please be honest about this when you contact me. If I suck you I expect that in return. I can only "host" on very rare occasions. Would prefer that you send me a pic or two when replying to my profile. Will be glad to answer any other questions. Hope to hear from you guys soon.
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*Update - FYI: Those of you that indicate that you are "straight acting" and/or "straight looking" doesn't always quite cut it. When you speak and you sound like you should be on "Queer Eye"(?) PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. Due to my marital situation I need to be TOTALLY DISCREET. I had a really bad experience from a guy on here. ALSO, I AM NOT LOOKING FOR A "RELATIONSHIP!" Friends and FWB's are one thing but a "RELATIONSHIP" is definitley out of the question. ALSO - Black "thugs" just keep moving on. You are nothing but trouble. (Educated black men are another matter and more than welcome.)

And as far as you women go - I just love ya
! I would NOT consider myself to "be a great fuck" in the past. It maybe different now though since of lost a lot of weight and have my heart condition corrected. In any event what I CAN offer you are magical hands, fingers palms. But mostly magical lips, tongue and nose. ( Yes Nose) I get more enjoyment out of pleasing my partners needs than myself. Particularly middle age and senior women. I love it if you can squirt on my face or in my mouth. That even turns me on more! And if you don't know how to squirt I may be able to teach you. I love to play, manipulate, tease and a very small amount of sensuous pain on your breasts, areolas and most importantly you nipples. I'm fascinated by your titties. I've played and sucked on several women where they are sore but they keep coming back for more. One told me it is "that good kind of sore like after you've had a good workout at the gym."

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buldhead has gotten together with someone through a site like this before.
buldhead can not entertain at their home.
buldhead would like to meet at a Restaurant.
buldhead can travel up to 30 miles.

If I find someone that I "click" with I usually like to meet them in a neutral setting first such as a bar, restaurant for lunch or dinner. If that meeting goes well and if the "chemistry" is right it will depend if we will meet or not meet again. Occasionally, the "chemistry" is perfect and we leave together to your home or a motel.

The actual sexual encounter depends on the type of interaction that has led up to the actual meeting and the mood of how my partner(s) and myself are feeling. It can be anything from soft candles and romantic to wild, nasty with very descriptive foul language. I can be very creative at "role playing" - in fact I love it!

Basically, I just want to find persons that I can feel comfortable with, that have no hangups and that everyone has fun. That's what it is all about for me.